Archive: September 2023

Amplifying Voices - Are you aware that it's Deaf Awareness Month?

September is Deaf Awareness Month. We celebrate the culture, history, and achievements of the Deaf and hard of hearing community.

In my opinion, it should be every day? We the hearing people must play our part to create awareness around our Deaf community.

This month serves as a reminder that deafness is not a barrier to success or a limitation on one's potential. It's a time to amplify the voices of Deaf individuals, highlighting their unique perspectives, resilience, and contributions to society. It's an opportunity to promote inclusivity, advocate for accessible communication, and foster greater understanding and acceptance of the Deaf community.

Let's join hands in celebrating diversity and promoting a world where everyone's voice is heard and valued.

On the 9th September 2023, we came together to host our yearly Miss, Mr and Mrs/Ms Deaf South Africa pageant in Cape Town.

One of the sponsors, Nolan Pillay from https://www.facebook.com/BTBVOYF said this: “Remember, this competition is not solely about the crown and the title, it's about the profound impact you are making in the lives of those who look up to you. You are all champions, inspiring many others who may be facing challenges.

Janice Jonker, the CEO of MDSA https://www.facebook.com/mdsapageant said this “MDSA is my passion and it inspires me to keep on making a difference in deaf people lives. Receiving positive feedback recently helps me to want to improve for next year. My message to the people out there is to get to know Deaf people, learn some basic sign language. Deaf people are really lovely people once you get to know them, you will enjoy their presence and they will go out of their way to welcome you to their world”.

Sylvia Mojanko - Ms Deaf South Africa 2023 winner said this: “As Ms Deaf South Africa, I would open a small modelling organization that caters for Deaf people from an early age. Even using social platforms to improve Deaf culture. I would want to celebrate Deaf awareness month every year in different areas and make sure every community organization, a small group where parents and young ones get to learn sign language here and there. Motivating would be the first thing to do and show Deaf people that they can become what they want to be and that being Deaf does not mean they are stupid or not loved. I want all the young ones to know that the only difference between Deaf and hearing is language only. The way we communicate is different; it's like not knowing other people's languages and that Deaf people are capable of doing anything in life”.

Monequ Edwards, the winner of Miss Deaf South Africa 2023, stated that her main goal is to have a positive influence on the lives of young Deaf people in our country.I'm dedicated to promoting Deaf culture and empowerment through various initiatives. I plan to participate actively in events and engagements to raise awareness about the Deaf community, breaking stereotypes and demonstrating their potential. Additionally, I'll advocate for equal job opportunities and fair treatment for Deaf individuals in the workplace, sharing success stories to inspire change. Ultimately, my goal is to foster inclusivity and empowerment within the Deaf community, creating a future where they are valued, respected, and given equal opportunities. By collaborating with stakeholders, raising awareness, and advocating for change, we can turn this vision into a reality”.

Justin Makinson - Mr Deaf South Africa 2023 winner said this “I would like to show Deaf youth and children that they can achieve anything in life.”

My message to you is, learn something from our Deaf community.

If you have any more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask.

Enjoy celebrating Deaf Awareness Month!

Much Love and Light

Nolan

nolanpillay360.com

I keep preaching on this topic due to what I see very often. In a world marked by diversity in every conceivable form, inclusivity stands as a beacon of hope and progress. It is the philosophy that recognizes the innate worth of every individual, regardless of their background, abilities, beliefs, or circumstances. Inclusivity calls for a society where all are embraced, valued, and given equal opportunities to thrive.

It is the acknowledgment that our differences are not to be feared or ignored but cherished and woven into the vibrant communities. Inclusivity extends a warm welcome to everyone, regardless of their race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, age, religion, disability, or any other defining characteristic. It recognizes that each of us is a unique thread, and together, we create a stronger and more beautiful whole. Think of the spirit of Ubuntu.

Here are some tips on how individuals can take action:

Educate Yourself - start by educating yourself about the issues related to inclusivity, diversity, and equity. Read books, articles, and watch documentaries to gain a deeper understanding of the challenges faced by marginalized communities.

Engage in Dialogue - initiate open and respectful conversations about inclusivity with friends, family, and colleagues. Create spaces where people can share their experiences and perspectives, and actively listen to learn from others.

Challenge Bias and Stereotypes - be mindful of your own biases and work to challenge them. Recognize that everyone has biases, but taking steps to confront and change them is crucial for fostering inclusivity.

Support Inclusive Organizations - seek out and support organizations and initiatives that are dedicated to inclusivity and equity. This could involve volunteering your time, donating, or attending events that promote inclusivity.

Advocate for Change - use your voice and influence to advocate for policies and practices that promote inclusivity at your workplace, in your community, and within institutions. Write letters, attend meetings, or join advocacy groups to effect change.

Start by taking these steps, individuals can contribute to creating a more equitable and inclusive world for all. There are many other ways, do research.

Much Love and Light, Nolan

Let’s make the time to reflect on your week as it comes to an end and make the most of the final day. Use Friday, to finish your tasks, projects, or goals on a high note.

The points I would like to share,
Reflection - As the workweek draws to a close, it's a good time to assess what you've accomplished during the week. Take a moment to review your goals and tasks, both personal and professional.

Finish Strong - The quote emphasizes the importance of putting in your best effort on Friday, just as you would at the start of the week. It's a reminder not to let your energy and motivation wane as the week progresses.

Regret-Free - By giving your best effort on Friday and wrapping up the week's tasks effectively, you reduce the chances of feeling regretful about missed opportunities or uncompleted tasks later on. This proactive approach can lead to a more fulfilling and productive week.

Weekend Preparation - A strong Friday wrap-up also sets the stage for a more relaxed and enjoyable weekend. When you've tied up loose ends and finished your week's work, you can enter the weekend with a sense of accomplishment and a clear mind, allowing you to truly unwind and recharge.

In a nutshell, this quote encourages you to approach every Friday as an opportunity to make the most of your week and to set yourself up for a rewarding weekend.

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One of our group members, Nhlanhla, asked a good question on Resilience after yesterday’s post.

I decided to share some strategies and tips to help people develop and strengthen their resilience,

1. Develop a Growth Mindset - Always believe that challenges and setbacks are opportunities for growth and learning. Failures are not permanent and can lead to improvement. 2. Build Self-Awareness - Understand your strengths, weaknesses, and emotional triggers. Learn to recognize your own emotions and responses to stress. 3. Foster Social Connections - Create a strong support system. Maintain and nurture relationships with friends, family, and mentors/coaches. 4. Practice Adaptability - Be flexible and have the ability to adapt to changing circumstances. Learn to view change as a natural part of life rather than a threat. 5. Set Realistic Goals - Set achievable, incremental goals and celebrate your progress and successes, no matter how small. 6. Develop Problem-Solving Skills - Learn problem-solving techniques and decision-making skills. Break problems down into smaller, manageable steps. 7. Improve Emotional Regulation - Learn some relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness. Identify and challenge negative thought patterns. 8. Seek Meaning and Purpose - Connect with your values and purpose in life. Find meaning in your experiences, even in adversity. 9. Maintain Physical Health - Exercise regularly, have a balanced diet, and adequate sleep. Learn about the connection between physical and mental well-being. 10. Develop Coping Strategies - Use coping strategies like journaling, art, or hobbies. Find healthy ways to release stress and emotions. 11. Seek Professional Help When Needed - Seek therapy or counseling when facing significant challenges. Find the right professional support. Life Coaches can help. 12. Learn from Role Models - Find stories of resilient individuals who have overcome adversity, and see what strategies and mindsets they used to contribute to their resilience. 13. Cultivate Optimism - Always have a positive outlook on life. Reframe negative thoughts into more optimistic ones. 14. Practice Self-Compassion - Be kind and forgiving to yourself. Avoid self-blame and cultivate self-acceptance. 15. Build Resilience Gradually - Know that resilience is developed over time. Keep persisting and have patience in the process.

Remember that building resilience is an ongoing journey, and it's important to tailor these strategies to each individual's unique circumstances and needs. It's also important to create a supportive and understanding environment where people feel safe to discuss their challenges and seek help when necessary.

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Here is how I interpret this quote? Would love to read your interpretation. "Resilience is not the absence of adversity but the ability to adapt and thrive despite it." Resilience is not about avoiding difficult situations or challenges in life. Instead, it's about having the strength and capability to face these challenges head-on. Resilient individuals don't shy away from adversity, they confront it with courage and a positive attitude. They don't let obstacles define them, instead, they find ways to adapt and continue moving forward. With my covid experience, I was admitted with 58% oxygen levels, spent 13 days in the ICU, faced trauma daily, here I am today sharing my experience with you all. Find my book on Amazon to read the full experience.

"In every challenge, there is an opportunity to grow stronger." I would like to highlight the idea that challenges, setbacks, and difficulties are not roadblocks but stepping stones. It means that when you encounter tough times or obstacles, you have the chance to learn, develop new skills, and become a stronger person as a result. Resilient individuals view challenges as opportunities for personal growth and improvement, rather than as insurmountable problems. During my covid journey, I was able to turn my painful covid experience into a success story and became a first time Author. Talk about being resilient.

In essence, resilience is about facing challenges with a positive and adaptive mindset, knowing that these challenges can actually make you stronger and better equipped to handle future obstacles. It's a reminder that adversity is a natural part of life, and how we respond to it can determine our personal growth and success.

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Are you impacting our Youth in a positive way? At StraightTalkWithNolan have taken it upon ourselves to make a difference in the lives of our Youth. We see the need to help build our country, Africa and the world.

Why you may ask? The youth are a crucial demographic because they represent the future and have the potential to shape society.

Here are some reasons for you, Demographic Significance - Youth often constitute a significant portion of the population in many countries. The size and characteristics of this demographic can have profound implications for societal development, economic growth, and political stability.

Potential for Change - Youth are at a stage in their lives where they are actively forming their identities, values, and beliefs. They are more receptive to new ideas and experiences, making them a powerful force for social change and innovation.

Future Leadership - Today's youth are tomorrow's leaders, entrepreneurs, educators, and policymakers. Their experiences and development during their youth years can shape their ability to contribute positively to society in these roles.

Resource Investment - Investing in youth development, including education, healthcare, and social support, can yield long-term benefits for a nation's human capital and economic prosperity.

We invite you to learn more about our 8-month “Let’s Think and Grow Rich - Positive Mental Attitude - Science of Success” course starting soon. Click on this link for more info https://www.letsthinkandgrowrich.com/

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Let's embark on a path that leads to a future of empowerment, progress, and positive change for Africa's youth.

Let's break down this quote and elaborate on its meaning,

"Embrace the power of a growth mindset on this Mindset Monday" This encourages you to adopt a "growth mindset." A growth mindset is a belief that your abilities and intelligence can be developed and improved through effort, learning, and perseverance.

"Every challenge is an opportunity to learn" Challenges and difficulties in life are presented as opportunities rather than obstacles. Instead of being discouraged by challenges, you can see them as chances to gain new knowledge, skills, and experiences. Each challenge you face can teach you something valuable.

"Every setback is a stepping stone to success" Setbacks, which are moments of failure or disappointment, are viewed as necessary steps on the path to success. They provide valuable lessons and experiences that can help you grow and move closer to your goals. In essence, setbacks are not roadblocks but rather stepping stones that elevate you towards your desired achievements.

Basically, this quote is a reminder to approach each Monday with a positive and growth-oriented mindset. It encourages you to see challenges as opportunities for personal and professional growth and to view setbacks as essential components of your journey to success. By embracing this mindset, you can navigate life's challenges with resilience and optimism, ultimately moving closer to your goals and aspirations.

We invite you to learn more about our 8-month “Let’s Think and Grow Rich - Positive Mental Attitude - Science of Success” course starting soon.

Connect with nolan@nolanpillay360.com for more info.

This message was sent at 23:55 pm on Wednesday night but I got to wake up the next morning and read it with a broad smile on my face.

Here's a message on the idea of "Pay it forward":

"Pay it forward, the simplest way to spread kindness. When someone extends a hand to help you, don't just repay them - pay it forward. Your acts of kindness can create a ripple effect, touching lives you may never know.

So, let's all be the change we wish to see in the world and sow seeds of goodwill. Together, we can make every day brighter for someone else." 💫🤝

For me personally, helping the Youth make a global difference is priceless!

Our 8-month “Let’s Think and Grow Rich - Positive Mental Attitude - Science of Success” course is starting soon, connect with nolan@nolanpillay360.com for more info.

Let's embark on a path that leads to a future of empowerment, progress, and positive change for Africa's youth.